Now that you've spent some time alone & possibly discovered some new ideas for your own masturbation sessions, it's time to use these ideas during your time with your partner. All great foreplay should include some mutual masturbation in conjunction with oral sex, massage or any other idea that the two of you enjoy.
One of the most common questions asked by men is, "How can I last longer during sex?" We really aren't even talking about premature ejaculation here, just wanting to last longer so they can satisfy their lover. Every man wants to be the everlasting lover who brings a woman to orgasm time after time before he does. This is probably one of the most difficult things for a man to control & most women don't realize that it is something that bothers us....
Masturbation, the word makes people giggle, but most of all it usually makes them uncomfortable. Just refer to masturbation in a group of friends and watch them squirm. That's odd, because it is the one thing that 99.9% of all creatures, human and animal alike, have in common. As children, we naturally explore our bodies, finding each part quite fascinating. That is, until we are caught, and scolded. Then, conditioned like Pavlov's dogs, we learn not to discuss the taboo subject and to feel guilt because we have this secret pleasure....
I'm sure you've all heard this phrase before, along with the old "you'll grow hair on your palms" & a million other ones. You've probably also have heard the jokes in the locker room & the club about the weirdo that must jerk off too much! You've all heard the terms jerking off, beating the bishop and so on & so on & so on. Well now that we've gotten all of that nonsense out of our system, lets talk about the facts. Masturbation for men is almost second nature, it's fun, & it is a great way to take away the days stress & bound-up sexual frustrations. Men have always had a strange relationship with their penis & this relationship is consummated regularly by masturbation....
Ah yes, the dreaded M word. It instantly provokes snickers & blushing, thoughts of parental lectures & sometimes even images of being caught in the act. Everyone denies doing it as if it carried the death penalty for an admission....