I’m sure you’ve all heard this phrase before, along with the old “you’ll grow hair on your palms” & a million other ones. You’ve probably also have heard the jokes in the locker room & the club about the weirdo that must jerk off too much! You’ve all heard the terms jerking off, beating the bishop and so on & so on & so on. Well now that we’ve gotten all of that nonsense out of our system, lets talk about the facts. Masturbation for men is almost second nature, it’s fun, & it is a great way to take away the days stress & bound-up sexual frustrations. Men have always had a strange relationship with their penis & this relationship is consummated regularly by masturbation.

What Can You Teach Me That I Don’t Already Know?

As far as how you masturbate, there’s probably not much, aside from some different techniques and tips. But using your regular masturbation sessions to enhance your sex life with your partner is something that most men never think about. That’s why we are here. You want to be the best lover you can be, Right? You want your partner to melt after a great sex session, Right? You want to be able to last longer than you do now, Right? Then throw the old perceptions of masturbation out the window & let’s get to it!

First Things First!

To take these techniques to their proper level you must first set aside time to practice them. We would ask that you set aside 1/2 of your regular masturbation sessions for use in these techniques.

The key here is mind over penis, and as we all know outsmarting the “little head” is easier said than done! These techniques should also not be attempted during those “I’m so horny the crack of dawn ain’t safe” times. Leave those times for shear enjoyment. The sessions that will really prove useful will be thought out in advance. As we mentioned on the main masturbation page, & we hope you have done this already, your partner & you should set aside times for each of you to be absolutely alone to explore your own body & further your own sexual self.

Lastly you must open your mind & throw all that “macho” nonsense out the window, no one will ever know what you do when you’re alone unless you tell them. This is for you & your partner & making your sex life the absolute best it can be. The only thing that can stop you is your own mind & the walls that have been built up in it. The sooner we rip these walls down the sooner your sex life will scream!

Exploring During Masturbation

Something most men never considered when masturbation is exploring things they have never tried before. Granted exploring by yourself can be somewhat limiting but there are things you can try. One of them is anal sex. Now before you go running off screaming GAY bear me out. Why some men have this instant gay attitude the minute you mention anal sex (on them) is beyond me. From one guy to another I have to tell you, the first time my wife slipped a finger “up there” while she was giving me oral sex the top of my head almost came off! I’m talking the best damn orgasm I had EVER had.

I was soon looking to explore this further to see if it was possible to make the sensations more intense. I started by masturbating in the shower and using my own finger to “explore” myself anally and found the sensations overwhelming. Soon enough I was talking to my partner about using a small vibrator during oral sex. Again, the sensations were incredible. Finally, as I became more confident in the sensations I talked to her about using a strap-on on me. All the time I explored by myself, finding what I could, and could not handle. The whole point is I had a “safe place” to try this without anyone knowing by experimenting during my masturbation sessions.

The other thing I started exploring was the exact spots on my penis that really drove me wild. I discovered that little spot at the base of the head and found that I could almost achieve orgasm by gently rubbing this spot with a single finger. I soon explained this spot to my lover and she made sure to pay attention to it when she gave me oral sex!

The point is, how can you tell your lover what “sends you to heaven” when you aren’t 100% sure yourself! Using your masturbation sessions to find these things is vital!

Lastly you can use your masturbation sessions to learn how to control how quickly you ejaculate. I don’t think there is one man alive who doesn’t want to last longer with their lover. If you can practice extending this time by practicing while masturbating your sex life with your partner will only get better! Check out our article about learning to controlling orgasm, your lover will thank you for it!

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