The thought of anal sex makes many people cringe, thinking mostly about pain, or of gay males. All these negatives are closed-minded ways to think of one way to express erotic feelings for your lover. Though anal sex isn't necessarily the best way to approach sex with a new partner, or for the first time with a partner & shouldn't be attempted without some pre-planning, it can be an exciting way to explore new sensations. Whether it's her first anal sex or his there are quite a few things to consider and not something to be tried without your partner's knowledge and permission.
Many people have a difficult time understanding the philosophy of swinging. Like many other sexual practices it carries the stigma of loose or slutty people that only care about sex & not their relationship. Nothing could be further from the truth! Most swingers are very well adjusted people who live very normal lives. Their relationship is usually one of intense strength & trust for each other. Many of them have risen past the boundaries of common jealousy & know that no matter what may happen in a particular sexual event, their relationship will stay strong....
S & M, BDSM, D/s, whatever you've heard it called before is a very complex & outreaching section of human sexuality that defies explanation on one page or an entire web site. We are currently looking for a writer to handle this very involved subject but in the mean time we encourage you to use the members forum that we have set up to it's fullest....
With sincere apologies to Dr. Suess I begin this section (I just couldn't help myself). But seriously now folks, fetishes are probably one of the most confused areas of sex around today. What exactly is a fetish? According to World Book psychiatrists see a fetish as an abnormal sexual attachment for a lifeless object. Attachment yes, abnormal? that's in the eye of the beholder. Fetishes are so widely varied that it would probably take an entire web site & then some to cover them all so we'll attempt to cover some of the more common ones here. Not being psychiatrists here we will not delve into what makes people become so vitally attached to these fetishes but hope that others would learn to accept these people & their fetishes without judgement. Like I always say, "Whatever makes your boat float"....
Before anybody starts getting crazy on me here about my opening title let me explain. Voyeurism has gotten a bad rap, plain & simple. Every human is a voyeur to some extent. TV, Movies, anything, & it seems the more sensual, or sexual it is, the more people love to watch it....
The word exhibitionism probably summons up visions of flashers & other assorted characters for most people, but truth be told a little "showing off the goods" can add quite a spark to any couples sex life. Just the right amount of tease along with a playful amount of skin can start to heat things up within seconds. This applies to both lovers in many ways....
A new way to play with food came to our attention a few months ago. We were watching one of those late night better sex shows when the topic of sploshing, sometimes called splooshing, came on. Needless to say we were curious since we had never heard of this. The whole idea is to get REALLY messy with food. We are talking buckets of custard, large bowls of pudding, peanut butter, the big bottle of chocolate syrup and so much more. The show even showed people sitting in pies and literally just covering each other with food, laughing their butts off and having a blast. To be very honest it looked like a total riot and we just had to try!...
Sex involving food, or as we like to call it food sex, can be one of the most erotic adventures you will ever embark on. It can stimulate many senses at one time leading to an overload of pleasure for both partners. One has only to use their imagination to come up with a multitude of pleasurable tastes, smell & feels that will enhance the sexual experience. Just the act of feeding each other in a Roman-like manner will allow the partner being fed to feel that just for a moment they are the master of their domain, with someone catering to their every need....
Making your own porn, whether for your enjoyment or to share with others touches upon several human instincts that are quite common to both men & women. The first two are exhibitionism & voyeurism. Not everyone will admit it but human beings love to show off. I believe this stems from fighting for attention as a child all the way up to clawing through life trying to get ahead in the world....
Many lovers attempt top push the envelope & increase the level of excitement by having sex in what most people would consider dangerous places. The level of excitement is increased in direct proportion to the risk of being caught in the act. Places such as public parks, elevators, public restrooms & let us not forget the infamous mile-high club for those who have had sex in aeroplanes. This practice can be very stimulating but is not for the weak of heart nor the nervous type....