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Hosting a Sex Party

Submitted by April on December 20, 2008 – 1:12 am3 Comments

istock 000000085641xsmall 203x300 Hosting a Sex PartyIf you and your partner are fairly open-minded and like to have fun, then you might consider throwing a lighthearted party for yourselves and a few close friends this festive season! Now, let’s not get this confused with a swinger party! A sex party is an adult themed party, sex could well be on the menu but swinging might not be.

Instead, invite some of your friends over for an adult themed party. Whether for a birthday, anniversary, just for the sake of getting together or at this time of year to celebrate Christmas and share some much needed body warmth, you can create a night of fun and laughter with a risqué theme.

Ask all your guests to turn up in lingerie. The girls in their favorite negligee or lacy underwear, the men in their nice tight boxers! This will have your guests already in a mood to have fun when they arrive and will help to break the ice! Make sure your house is heated, especially at this time of year!

Next, your decorations need to adapt to the topic at hand as well. Of course, a purchase of balloons – round ones and long ones – is a must. You can use your imagination to hang them or draw on them in a provocative manner. A liberal supply of sex toys and pillows never goes amiss.

Novelty party trays can be bought in the shape of a penis, for serving, as well as penis ice cube trays. Things like this can certainly add an element of humor into any party. Likewise, Boob shaped Jelly moulds can be used for dessert. You can make finger food for your friends to munch on all evening, but rearranged the menu to give each items a new sexy name. I’d suggest you keep food light and stay away from strong flavors such as onion and garlic.

As for the entertainment, you can invent your own competitions, such as lingerie fashion shows, or lap dance competitions for each girl to perform on her partner, or in front of the whole crowd to be judged and rated! The winner gets a prize – a toy or some adult novelty for his or her own entertainment!

There are loads of party games for adults either available online or in your local store. Some center around question and answer games, others are similar to dictionary or charades. Games such as truth or dare or spin the bottle are a great way to get people interacting and can help move things along. Twister is another personal favorite!

Of course, if things should wind down at all, you can offer a selection of movies so that everyone can curl up on the couch with their partner to watch.

At least one private room should be set aside, more if you can to allow couples to move off and for the party to progress. Make sure you have a supply of the basics such as condoms and lube handy.

To make your party a success I’d suggest a couple of ground rules:

1.    No cameras or mobile phones. You don’t want any photos ending up anywhere online.
2.    Make sure you’re aware of everyone’s boundaries and expectations before you begin.
3.    The party doesn’t have to involve swinging.
4.    Keep it fun and lighthearted!

So as you can see, hosting a sex party is easy and can be great fun. It can bring friends closer together and it’s a great way to have some safe adult fun!

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3 Comments »

  • Sam says:

    I can’t wait to see you next week sweety! Hold off on the party until I get there! xx

  • Dave says:

    I’m sorry but this has GOT to be the dumbest idea I have ever read! Seriously, let’s invite our normal friends and ask them to show up in ‘jammies’ and maybe have some sex toys around? Are we serious? Nothing like telling the whole town of straights we are a bit different!

    Try again cause this idea is a joke!

  • Sam says:

    I guess it all depends on the type of friends you have Dave!

    I wouldn’t invite anyone I wasn’t sure was up for it and knowing April I think it would turn into more of a swinging party than anything else!

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