Knowing your lovers body & how it reacts to different stimulation can often be more complex than it seems. Too often certain areas are the centre of attention, overlooking the overall picture. Men's bodies have as many erogenous zones as women's bodies do, unfortunately most women seem to overlook them on a fairly regular basis. The trick to making your man quiver & quake (yes they are capable of that) & explode in a earth shattering orgasm is too play on these zones & build the anticipation level prior to concentrating your efforts on the penis. Sensual foreplay is the job of both lovers, not one, so as the men learn about your body in the women's body section lets get started building the road map to his body.

Men & women have more in common then they often think they do, when it comes to erogenous zones. Of course every man is different in what they like & dislike but I have a sneaking suspicion that most men have never had a woman take the time to explore their body & find out. Wouldn't it be great if you were the first woman to find something on him that just drove him up the wall? We will attempt to give you some hints & suggestions in this section, but the real answer is too explore. Lay him down one night & tell him you're driving. Take a long drive from head to toe leaving no side road missed, just detour around the penis until he is begging for it, & then again, let him beg for a while.

Follow his Lead

A good way to find out what areas of your man's body may be sensitive is to pay attention to what areas of your body he seems to spend the most time on. Quite often a person will take what they know about their own body & how it feels when stimulated & transfer it to their lovers body. Of course if he spends 90 % of the time between your legs this may not be the answer, but watch & take mental notes of the other key spots. Subtle hints from him should also be followed. If a man seems to be directing you in to certain area follow his lead. Watch for breathing changes or minor quivers. These signs may lead you to the very spots we want to find.

A Few Road Signs

As a man I can only tell you what areas are quite sensitive & let you try them out on your lover. I can't begin to tell you how many women I have been with throughout my life that completely ignored everything on my body except for my mouth & penis, so try a little diversification. I really enjoy letting a woman take charge & explore. A few of these sessions have revealed some spots that I didn't even know about.

A mans neck & ears can be quite sensitive to kisses & licking, especially the nape of the neck. A little trick my wife does to me is gently licking the inner ear & circling the ear with her tongue. After the ear is properly wet a slight blow & inhale over the ear will cause some wild feelings & shivers. Soft kisses to the face & eyelids may not cause them to scream but, in my opinion, are very sensual & highly romantic. As you begin to work down his body make sure to stop at his chest & shoulders. Men may not admit it, but they love being kissed & licked all over, so don't scrimp. Some men's nipples are as sensitive as women's & can cause a very high state of arousal. Gently kiss & suck on them until they come to attention, then blow a gentle breeze over them. I must add here that not all men enjoy this, but give it a try. As you move down from the chest stop at his stomach for a minute or two, once again kissing & licking. Don't forget the bellybutton as it can be a source of great pleasure.

South Of the Border

Once you start down past the stomach area you must resist the temptation, & his coaxing, to head for his penis. A gentle kiss will suffice as you pass it up. A great way to really make him climb the walls is to jump to a foot & work your way up kissing, licking & sucking up towards the penis, then jumping to the other foot & doing it again. When dealing with feet it is important to know how ticklish he is. If he's anything like me, his feet may not be able to stand much before the laughter is uncontrollable. As you work up the leg make sure to pay special attention to the inside of the thighs, kissing & licking in circular motions moving closer to his penis, but then pulling away from it over & over. By the time you get to his penis he will be in heaven.

If absolute torture is your thing you can even roll him over onto his stomach & start over again without ever touching his penis. Another little trick to driving him nuts is to use your body to rub areas as you venture around. Using a breast to massage his stomach or other areas can be quite a turn on. Use your legs & thighs to rub his legs while your mouth works on other areas. As you approach his penis gently kiss around the area. Jumping straight to the penis may cause you to miss some vitally important areas. The area of skin between the scrotum & anus is incredibly sensitive. Gently lift the scrotum to expose this area. Kissing & licking this area will usually send him right over the edge! If he can stand any more at this point you may proceed to the scrotum & penis. We will leave those to the oral sex section since that is an art all unto itself.

One other point of interest for some is the anus itself. This is one of those love it or hate it things that may need discussion before attempting. Many men derive great sexual sensations from insertion of a finger or other object into the anus, especially during oral sex & orgasm. Many men , on the other hand are very uncomfortable with this. A lot of men may feel it has too many homosexual links for them to be comfortable. If you feel your lover would be comfortable with this area then by all means explore! Of particular interest is the prostate area located slightly inside the rectum & directly behind the penis. Massage of this area can give a man sensations (& orgasms) of stellar proportions. We should also add that lubricant of some kind should be used, & great care should be taken not to damage this inner wall, so ladies WATCH THOSE NAILS!

These are just some tips & pointers from a man's point of view. Use them as a guide to begin exploring his body. Don't be afraid to ask him afterward what he enjoyed & may not have. Trade off evenings with him, letting him explore your body one night & you the other. After some time & effort you should both know where to go on each other's body to get the reaction you are looking for.

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