A women's body is one of the most erotic, sensual, and precious objects in the universe, and not only do they like to feel that way, but they want to be treated that way by the men in their lives. They don't just want sex; they want a sexual, sensuous, and sexy lover.

Women and men both need to talk to their partners about what they both like and dislike in their sexual relationship and how they can improve on it. A successful sexual relationship is all about proper communication. A woman's body is very important. Shape, size, and color have nothing to do with it. There are so many people in this world with different likes and dislikes. Men need to be sensitive to a woman's feelings. Most women are very sensitive about their bodies and want their partners to respect that fact.

As we talked about in the "His Body" section, knowing your lover's body and how it reacts to different stimulations can often be complex and very crucial to a thriving sexual relationship.

Let's Explore

Men and women have as many similarities as they have differences in their erogenous zones. Just because a man prefers certain parts of a women's body, that doesn't mean that touching that part will be a turn-on for her. You need to explore. For example, let's talk about "the kiss". The kiss is usually the first act of intimacy between two people. It not only conveys to both parties that the line has been crossed, that the relationship has become "physical", but it is also the first major indication of things to come (so to speak). The kiss should be gentle, not aggressive, with both parties given the chance to participate equally. It should convey passion and tenderness at the same time. Save the rougher kisses for the next stages, yet to come. This is the only chance you'll get to make a lasting first impression. Don't blow it by rushing. Enjoy.

Some folks think that foreplay is essential to love-making, and boy, are they right! There are so many parts of a woman's body that, if lightly touched by hand or blown on with a gentle warm breath, can create unbelievable sensations that travel up and down her body like lightning. The area around the hip, just inside the hip-bone is very sensitive. Run your nails gently, but quickly, over that spot and you can actually see the abdominal muscles contract. It's very hot. The skin right behind the knee-cap is also a sensation maker.

Humans have gazillions of nerve endings all over their bodies & each touch has purpose. Making love is similar to creating a great work of art so go slowly and take your time. So, the best way to find out what your woman prefers would be to just ask. It's so easy. As we said in the "His Body" section, you need to follow your partner's lead. You need to notice your partner's reactions as you are roaming her body. This may give you signs to what may make her quiver and shake. Some women are not very vocal, which is why you need to pay attention to her body movements.

A Couple of Little Secrets

As a Woman, I can let you in on a few secrets on what makes me shake, rattle and roll. I love being licked on my neck and having a tongue inserted in my ear, then performing a light sucking action in the ear canal. This is very sensual for a lot of women, raising their excitement level. Many men automatically assume that to get women off sexually, they need to go right below the waist.

Many women love to have their nipples sucked and bitten. Make sure you don't bite too hard, because you want to pleasure her, not hurt her. There are many men out there who love a woman's breasts. It's a turn-on for them but it may not be for her. Everyone has different preferences and you can't just assume that someone will like something. Try different things and talk, talk, talk to each other. Remember, you're building a relationship, whether for one night, or a lifetime. Make it meaningful!

Women also liked to be caressed during sexual play. They want to know that you really care and that you are not there just get your kicks & run. Women also love to have their feet massaged and the less ticklish ones may enjoy having their toes gently sucked. This is a great way to start off. Start at her feet and work your way up her legs. This feels great and allows the woman to become very relaxed. Let her know how you feel during your lovemaking. This will satisfy her emotionally as well as physically.

Aiming Her Towards Orgasm

As you might have heard, a lot of women can't achieve orgasm by intercourse alone. One reason why many women have not experienced this pleasure might simply be that the couple has not taken the time to explore. It is a well known fact that women take longer to reach orgasm, so take your time. The first touch can be so erotic. Women also know that fingers can do wonders. But don't get so caught up in your own excitement that you don't pay attention to what you are doing. Start out fingering her gently, making it more sensual. Don't just jab your fingers into her hard, start out slowly; it feels much better that way. Applying a little pressure on the clitoris will make her go crazy. This is a great time to explore inside her vagina with your fingers.

Ask her to tell you which way to go. Men, you might want to ask your partner if she would like to try different positions to find one that might be more satisfying for her. Our Sexual Positions section is designed for this very purpose. Exploring these different positions might prove to be very startling. Accidentally, you may find "that" spot by doing something you never did before. Have some fun. Make love in different places. It gets boring in the same old place and position all the time. By doing this, you might be surprised to find some pleasures that you never thought possible.

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