Tied up

[Brandy]

Any of you like being tied up when you are having sex? It's something we haven't done in a while but it can be a lot of fun!

[Caroline]

I would love it if my husband and I would try something different instead of just jumping to sex. He doesn't really get it and I try to explain that we need to play around before jumping in. Plus he gets so aggressive and rough that I don't like it.

[amanda]

I'd like to try that one, but I am apprehensive if the ties will be too tight. Sometimes I get cramps and have to change positions. That would be hard if I am tied up, wouldn't it?

[matahari]

I love it! We use silk scarves so they are soft and easy to get out of if you really need to, although I never want to. I like my ankles tied too. It is such a turn on!

[spicyhot]

Reminds me of the movie Killing Me Softly. I don't tie up my partner whenever I made love with her. I do pull her hair sometimes when we are on a doggy position just to hear her moan.

[GreenElephants]

I hate to feel like I'm not in control of my own body, so I don't think that being tied up is really for me. Tying up my partner, on the other hand, sounds more intriguing.

[Ktylove]

I love it! I had a partner that used Shibari, a very intricate form of tying people up. It's sort of like macramé hehehe. It takes a long time and the result is aesthetically pleasing, as well as stimulating (silky cords over sensitive areas). It's quite the turn-on, if you like being restrained. Or, as GreenElephants says, you might prefer being the one who ties...

[Blue]

Oh I love being tied up and tying people up as well. I think it's thrilling as you can't do anything, you'll just have to take whatever comes to you. Really nice. Although before anything starts me and my partner knows that both of us has the right to voice out our opinions on whichever moves we're not comfortable with.

[Missy]

It's something I enjoy a whole lot! Contrary to GreenElephants, I love to let go and to lose control of myself, but provided both parties have a mutual understanding on what kinda things would go over the line. It can feel really good, and Ktylove, I would have to check that Shibari thing out, it sounds awesome so thanks for the heads up!

[snowman]

That sounds like a good idea but we have never tried it. I have no issue being tied up during foreplay and sex if my partner wanted, but she said that my hands are more useful without being tied up LOL.