What won't you do?

[Alexis]

I dated a guy once who admitted to being into all sorts of stuff I'd never want to even try. Now that I'm with a partner who is more my style, I encourage him to open up and tell me things he wants to do....but I cross my fingers every time, hoping he doesn't bring up one of those things I don't want to do (like golden showers).

What's on your list? Are there things that you'd do if your partner really, really wanted to try out or is your list nonnegotiable?

[needhelp]

I have or am willing to try most anything except if it involves any bodily functions or pain. That is just way too gross for me. Occasionally there have been things my partner wanted to try that didn't sound all that hot to me but I'll try most anything once. If it's something that turns them on but I don't particularly get anything out of it, I'll do it occasionally just because they like it. Sometimes it's worth it just to get them all hot and bothered so it makes up for the lack of excitement by the act.

[satin]

Some of the "gross" things I am there with you on but I think I will try almost anything once. How else are you going to know what you like if you don't try it right?

[Samantha]

I'm with what's been said so far. I'll try almost anything at least once. Almost being the keyword. I don't like the idea of golden showers or anything like that either. In fact that usually doesnt even cross my mind when I think about sex acts because it is just so far from anything I'd want to do.

As far as some more "normal" sex stuff, I really am not into the idea of anal sex. It just does nothing to turn me on. I don't even want to try. Of course my bf is just like - oh we'll see how you feel in the moment. I told him maybe I'd consider it in the moment but still, if just the idea of it kind of turns me off, I doubt doing it is going to change anything.

But that's just me.

[restless]

I am agreeing with all that's said so far. Sex for me, is like food - I'll give most foods a try. What works stays and what doesn't is forgotten - but I'm always looking for some new thing to try. The 'gross' stuff doesn't cross my mind.