Light bondage?

[undersexed]

We don't do this every time but occasionally we try a little light bondage. Tried handcuffs once but didn't like them. We tend to use a tie from a bathrobe as it's softer. Obviously, you wouldn't want to try this with someone you didn't know very well and trust but it can be very fun with a trusted partner. Does anyone else go in for bondage?

[Tazzzzzzz]

I have tried it and absolutely loved it. I like to be tied and to tie my lover and just have a blast with it. You do need to be careful with any bondage and I would suggest the use of a "safe word" that if used by either partner would STOP any activity. You want it to be something you wouldn't normally say during sex. We use zebra.

I think teasing is the best part of light bondage as you can control or be controlled and really have a lot of fun!

I never liked cuffs either but had some fuzzy soft cuffs that tied to the bed posts. I need to find them I think!

Tazzzzzzz

[slinky]

Faux fur lined handcuffs are fun. Velvet (the really plush type) also makes a great handcuff cover. I learned the hard way the plastic novelty cuffs may not hold. We have a set of velcro ties as well and some silk scarves (I know how cliche). Nothing is more fun than some bondage and a bucket of ice.

[Alexis]

Also try scarves or his silk ties. The material is a great tease and then you can also "tie" them without it being a permanent knot that you need help getting out of.

[needhelp]

My hubby and I enjoy some bondage here and there. We don't do it every time as it will end up getting old hat after a while. One tip if you haven't tried it yet...don't ever use nylons! Way back in our early marriage, I did the whole striptease dance and proceeded to tie him to the bed with my nylons. As we made love and he moved around, the nylons kept getting tighter and tighter. We had to stop and cut him free as his hands started going numb. Looking back on it, we still had a great time that night and we still get a chuckle thinking about it.

[catlin]

I have tried Velcro ties and sometimes those can be broke too so be careful. Fuzzy cuffs are not bad at all, neither are real ones when you date someone that works in law enforcement. You can be really creative here from neck ties to the ones around the robe, just be creative - isn't that part of the fun.

[undersexed]

I have seen some cuffs with velcro closures but never bothered with them as it didn't seem like the velcro would really hold a person. I'm thinking of trying them if they do work though because I found a really incredible outfit that has the velcro cuffs as part of the complete set so they match. They start out on me but end up on him which sounded like loads of fun.

[mindy]

I enjoy some light bondage - we usually use his ties from work... sort of advances from getting undressed to using the tie he's wearing. I love taking turns at bondage. Both roles are so much fun.

We also use a safe word. Ours is "umbrella".