How do I introduce 'kinky' stuff?

[restless]

I think my partner and I somewhat 'plain jane' and don't experiment a lot and by 'kinky', I only mean things that we have NEVER done before, but might be quite the norm otherwise.

[mindy]

Maybe get some of those erotic dice: you know, one that has body parts, and the other has actions (like lick, kiss, tickle...). I saw them at Target in the dollar bins the other day.

Or you could try what we do - open The Joy of Sex or the Kama Sutra to a random page and try what you see.

[restless]

Wow, you just reminded me. My wife had given me as a birthday present, a copy of "the Joy of Sex". You're right, that should make things a lot easier. Now it's just a matter of finding the book.

[satin]

There is a sex game and I dont know the name of it but I am sure there are many variations to it. Mainly it has a mat with dice and you kind of play it like any other dice/mat game, each takes a turn, you land somewhere and do what the mat says. Loads of fun.

[slinky]

I'm a big fan of just picking a random page on the Kama Sutra (we have the Cosmo Sutra though). I've also made my own deck of cards, kind of like the Chance/Comunity Chest on Monopoly. We pick one and do whatever it says until we can't think straight.