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Originally Posted by needhelp
While he's all relaxed (Saturday afternoon, perhaps?), I would try to discuss your feelings with him and try to get his feelings as well. See if you can't come up with some ideas to help on an ongoing basis...such as a date night or even a monthly weekender. Some sort of system where you can touch bases on a regular basis. Counseling may still be needed but you'll have to judge that by how the weekend goes. Good luck to you!
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Date nights are awesome. Sure, you'd love some spontaneity still and you don't want to feel obligated to even have sex on those 'date nights', so just try to work something out so you can spend time together in general. Baby steps will get you there. And I do think counseling could be a good idea, but if he's willing to work on it and really make a difference, then I wouldn't push it too much...he may've just needed this to snag his attention.