Definitely discuss it more
While he's all relaxed (Saturday afternoon, perhaps?), I would try to discuss your feelings with him and try to get his feelings as well. See if you can't come up with some ideas to help on an ongoing basis...such as a date night or even a monthly weekender. Some sort of system where you can touch bases on a regular basis. Counseling may still be needed but you'll have to judge that by how the weekend goes. Good luck to you!
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