The word exhibitionism probably summons up visions of flashers & other assorted characters for most people, but truth be told a little “showing off the goods” can add quite a spark to any couples sex life. Just the right amount of tease along with a playful amount of skin can start to heat things up within seconds. This applies to both lovers in many ways.

Add in the danger of a public or semi-public display & things can get down right overheated. The only trick to these ideas is the guts to pull them off, & not get caught by the wrong parties! Even if you aren’t quite ready for the challenge of a public display a little exhibitionism around the house can get you started.

A Simple Start

Start getting your lovers attention by wearing something a bit too tight, something that really shows off your assets. My wife has a tank top that is just a tad tight & ribbed just right. Put that together with a tight pair of jeans & I’m chasing her around like a dog in heat. It’s really that simple. Find something to wear that just demands attention & that your lover can’t help noticing. It may take a little time to find the right combination but once you do it’s well worth it!

Men can try the old skin tight jeans too, & for that extra bonus skip the undies. Don’t be afraid to strut your stuff! As things progress try a super slinky dress the next time you go out or pants & a shirt that show the world what you’ve got. Who cares if the rest of the world is looking, you both know who you’re going home with tonight! Maybe that skirt is just a bit too short & every time you move the wrong way a glimpse of stockings or butt can’t help but show. Maybe those jeans are just so tight the women will wonder if you’ve got a banana in your pocket. Let them look, & drool because your lover will be drooling along with them. It’s amazing how hot a lover can get when they see how hot & bothered others get looking at you.

Of course if one of you have that nasty green-eyed monster called jealousy lurking around you better make sure you can handle it. Some people just loose it when the think their lover is getting too much attention.

Turning Up The Volume

Once you’ve built up your courage to venture deeper into this idea try giving your lover a flash here & there. Send them a naked Polaroid with their lunch. One of my favorite TV commercials was the one where a wife calls her husband during a board meeting & despite his insistence that he is busy she convinces him to open his briefcase & look inside. The look on his face when he realizes she had slipped a photo of her, obviously in a very seductive pose by his reaction, is priceless.

Like we said before this isn’t just for the women either. The men can do this just as easily. One of the biggest problems with couples that have been together a while is that they have forgotten the art of the tease. Let’s face it, half of dating & attracting potential lovers is teasing them into a frenzy, so why stop after your together? Try jumping into the pool, lake or ocean & then stripping of your suit. If that doesn’t get their attention you had better call an ambulance!

The Excitement of Danger

Taking exhibitionism to an even higher level some will start to allow strangers a glimpse of the “Goodies”. Many people get a super sexual charge by allowing themselves to be caught in what most would consider an embarrassing moment. Many women enjoy the thrill of going panty-less in public & bending over at just the right moment. Man will wear shorts that leave nothing to the imagination & tend to “let things slip out”, if you get our drift. Others still will allow themselves to be caught in the act, just for the sexual charge. Many a trucker has put out a CB alert that a couple is “going at it” while driving down the highway!

While very exciting you must always create a safety zone between yourselves & the spying public. Make sure to take a few tips from our Dangerous Places Article & remember, if you get caught by the law, don’t tell them we said it was OK!

The Ultimate Private Exhibition

A private exhibition for your lover can really add to your bedroom fire. Performing for your lover may be very awkward at first but once this is overcome it’s usually fireworks indoors. Many will start with simple stripping to get their lover going but this too can be taken to an ultimate level. As the strip progresses begin to masturbate. Watching a lover take themselves to the highest heights of ecstasy may not be for everyone but their is no lover in the world that won’t climb the walls watching you.

This idea works very well for those of you into erotic photography & video taping. Pull out your favorite toy(s) & drive them nuts while you drive yourself nuts. Guaranteed to produce some of the wildest sex you’ve ever had!

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