Vivvo CMS 4.0 http://www.have-better-sex.com/ ©2007 Spoonlabs d.o.o. http://www.have-better-sex.com/files.php?file= http://www.have-better-sex.com/ http://www.have-better-sex.com/communication/phonesex.html Communication Sat, 26 Apr 2008 17:37:00 -0500 Now I know what most of you are probably thinking; "pay for phone sex when I travel?" Nope sorry, that is not what this article is about. As a matter of fact that's exactly the opposite of this idea but it can add some hot nights to those trips away from home. Granted it's not for everyone but if both partners can get into this it can really relieve the tensions found in relationships where one (or both) mates travel for a living! What I am talking about is having phone sex with your mate. http://www.have-better-sex.com/communication/sexual-wish-lists.html Communication Fri, 04 Apr 2008 02:47:00 -0500 Creating a wish list section in a sex site might seem a little odd at first, but there is a method to our madness. As your discussions about each aspect of your sex life continue, you will undoubtedly touch upon some topics that interest the both of you, but you don't feel you're quite ready to venture into them. Hence begins your wish list. http://www.have-better-sex.com/communication/past_lovers.html Communication Fri, 04 Apr 2008 12:18:00 -0500 Talking about past lovers isn't for everyone. It requires a complete acceptance & trust of your lover & their past. I urge you, please do not try this unless you are completely secure in your relationship. Many jealousies can rear their ugly heads during such a conversation. After many years of discussion of our sex life, my wife & I have finally gone through this stage of our relationship & it is, what we consider the final release of inner thoughts & acceptance of each other. http://www.have-better-sex.com/communication/exploring-sexual-fantasies.html Communication Fri, 04 Apr 2008 11:51:00 -0500 When you are in a relationship that has evolved to sharing secrets and potential fantasies, you are entering a new chapter in your love (and sex) life. When your lover feels enough trust to tell you their fantasy, your response is critical. http://www.have-better-sex.com/communication/taling-about-fantasies.html Communication Fri, 04 Apr 2008 06:45:00 -0500 When discussing fantasies with your lover the question of whether you wish the fantasy to become a reality, or just keep it a fantasy, must be asked. Many fantasies involve some risks & often include behaviour that are outside the realm of some people's "norm". Then again, there are many fantasies that are very easy to fulfil & well within every couples reach. http://www.have-better-sex.com/communication/exploring-kinky-sex.html Communication Fri, 04 Apr 2008 11:42:00 -0500 Kinky sex is a relative term & matter for people. To some kinky sex could be leaving the lights on, while others could pursue anything from S&M to bisexuality (which in all honesty is a lifestyle, not a kink). Discussing your desires about kinky sex should be traveled slowly with your partner. As the comfort level & trust factor elevates, so will your ability to discuss these so-called kinky desires. http://www.have-better-sex.com/communication/sextalk.html Communication Fri, 04 Apr 2008 11:00:00 -0500 One of the most difficult things a couple can master. Open and frank talk about sex can not only make your sex amazing it can save your relationship! http://www.have-better-sex.com/communication/sexual-communication.html Communication Fri, 04 Apr 2008 10:53:00 -0500 So you say your relationship with your lover is pretty good. You talk about your life & job every night in front of the TV but when it comes to sex, what's to discuss. How about everything! This may well be the most difficult thing to learn, but it is the basis by which all great sexual experiences, & great relationships begin. Have Better Sex