Making Sex Fun Again
July 31, 2010 – 1:39 pm | No Comment

Is your love life losing some of its fire? It’s a pretty common problem, actually. According to a study by Harvard, one in eight adult women are distressed about the quality of their sex life. …

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This site is my labor of love. A site that allows people access to real advice from real people. No porn, no expectations. Just solid advice based in real world experience. I'm a 34, divorced, woman with a penchant for swinging! I'm up for just about anything as long as it's consensual.

Toxic Sex Toys
January 22, 2010 – 11:06 am | One Comment
Toxic Sex Toys

Environmentalists have long argued that the phthalates found in sex toys are leeching into our bodies, and compare using a vibrator containing phthalates to voluntarily ingesting other deadly chemicals. Is your best friend doing you …

10 of the Best Sex Toys for Couples
March 27, 2009 – 1:17 am | 3 Comments
10 of the Best Sex Toys for Couples

Sex toys are a great way to liven up any sex life with a partner or just on your own. They provide pleasure in a number of different ways as well as variety and they …

When He’s the One with the Headache: Loss of Libido in Men
December 14, 2008 – 11:03 pm | No Comment
When He’s the One with the Headache: Loss of Libido in Men

Loss of libido in men is not something that is often talked about — by either sex. While a woman feigning a headache to avoid having sex is accepted by all as the “norm,” a …

It Sucks To Be A Newbie In the Swingers World
December 1, 2008 – 10:30 pm | No Comment
It Sucks To Be A Newbie In the Swingers World

It’s kind of amazing to me actually how swinging has become so popular these days. The amount of couples getting into the lifestyle seems to grow every day. With this sudden influx of “newbies” it …

We’ve Got To Get Out Of Here! – Planning Romantic Getaways
November 18, 2008 – 1:51 pm | No Comment
We’ve Got To Get Out Of Here! – Planning Romantic Getaways

Every relationship suffers from the grind of life. Bills, kids, bosses & everyday nonsense can bring your love life (& sex life) to a screeching halt. One way of combating this “life fatigue” is to …

Mutual Masturbation, Use What You’ve Learned
October 24, 2008 – 5:40 pm | 4 Comments
Mutual Masturbation, Use What You’ve Learned

Now that you’ve spent some time alone & possibly discovered some new ideas for your own masturbation sessions, it’s time to use these ideas during your time with your partner. All great foreplay should include …

Sexual Communication, Lets Get started!
October 3, 2008 – 7:20 pm | No Comment
Sexual Communication, Lets Get started!

So you say your relationship with your lover is pretty good. You talk about your life & job every night in front of the TV but when it comes to sex, what’s to discuss. How …

Phone Sex – Great Sex When Your Mate Travels
October 2, 2008 – 5:04 pm | One Comment
Phone Sex – Great Sex When Your Mate Travels

Now I know what most of you are probably thinking; “pay for phone sex when I travel?” Nope sorry, that is not what this article is about. As a matter of fact that’s exactly the …