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Don’t panic! Safer Sex Practices
January 28, 2010 – 11:22 am | No Comment

If you do a search on the Internet for sexually transmitted diseases, you can start panicking really fast. It seems like you should be afraid of everything! And while it’s true there are some scary …

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This site is my labor of love. A site that allows people access to real advice from real people. No porn, no expectations. Just solid advice based in real world experience. I'm a 34, divorced, woman with a penchant for swinging! I'm up for just about anything as long as it's consensual.

Toxic Sex Toys
January 22, 2010 – 11:06 am | No Comment
Toxic Sex Toys

Environmentalists have long argued that the phthalates found in sex toys are leeching into our bodies, and compare using a vibrator containing phthalates to voluntarily ingesting other deadly chemicals. Is your best friend doing you …

10 of the Best Sex Toys for Couples
March 27, 2009 – 1:17 am | 3 Comments
10 of the Best Sex Toys for Couples

Sex toys are a great way to liven up any sex life with a partner or just on your own. They provide pleasure in a number of different ways as well as variety and they …

When He’s the One with the Headache: Loss of Libido in Men
December 14, 2008 – 11:03 pm | No Comment
When He’s the One with the Headache: Loss of Libido in Men

Loss of libido in men is not something that is often talked about — by either sex. While a woman feigning a headache to avoid having sex is accepted by all as the “norm,” a …

It Sucks To Be A Newbie In the Swingers World
December 1, 2008 – 10:30 pm | No Comment
It Sucks To Be A Newbie In the Swingers World

It’s kind of amazing to me actually how swinging has become so popular these days. The amount of couples getting into the lifestyle seems to grow every day. With this sudden influx of “newbies” it …

We’ve Got To Get Out Of Here! – Planning Romantic Getaways
November 18, 2008 – 1:51 pm | No Comment
We’ve Got To Get Out Of Here! – Planning Romantic Getaways

Every relationship suffers from the grind of life. Bills, kids, bosses & everyday nonsense can bring your love life (& sex life) to a screeching halt. One way of combating this “life fatigue” is to …

Mutual Masturbation, Use What You’ve Learned
October 24, 2008 – 5:40 pm | 4 Comments
Mutual Masturbation, Use What You’ve Learned

Now that you’ve spent some time alone & possibly discovered some new ideas for your own masturbation sessions, it’s time to use these ideas during your time with your partner. All great foreplay should include …

Sexual Communication, Lets Get started!
October 3, 2008 – 7:20 pm | No Comment
Sexual Communication, Lets Get started!

So you say your relationship with your lover is pretty good. You talk about your life & job every night in front of the TV but when it comes to sex, what’s to discuss. How …

Phone Sex – Great Sex When Your Mate Travels
October 2, 2008 – 5:04 pm | One Comment
Phone Sex – Great Sex When Your Mate Travels

Now I know what most of you are probably thinking; “pay for phone sex when I travel?” Nope sorry, that is not what this article is about. As a matter of fact that’s exactly the …

Massage – A Great Way To Rub Away The World
September 16, 2008 – 12:51 am | No Comment
Massage – A Great Way To Rub Away The World

I don’t know anyone who doesn’t like a good massage. It can be relaxing & sensual at the same time. It also shows your lover that you are willing to take the time to truly …

Planning Dates
September 11, 2008 – 4:39 pm | No Comment
Planning Dates

As couples become “comfortable” with each other & their relationship the time for romance, love & sex seems to dwindle away into the routine of everyday life. This is usually the beginning of sexual & …

Oral Sex – Let Your Tongue Do the Walking
August 28, 2008 – 2:56 am | One Comment
Oral Sex – Let Your Tongue Do the Walking

Oral sex has more & more become an acceptable practice in modern life. As we all know the topic screamed into the limelight several years ago thanks to a certain “high-ranking” government official that will …

Understanding Swinging & The Swingers Lifestyle
August 27, 2008 – 12:29 pm | No Comment
Understanding Swinging & The Swingers Lifestyle

Many people have a difficult time understanding the philosophy of swinging. Like many other sexual practices it carries the stigma of loose or slutty people that only care about sex & not their relationship. Nothing …

Setting The Mood for Sex
August 7, 2008 – 6:06 pm | No Comment
Setting The Mood for Sex

Whether dating that someone special or having been married for 50 years, most people think the mood for romance is something that only has to do with that moment. Lovers also seem to forget that …

Men’s Orgasm
April 12, 2008 – 5:52 pm | 6 Comments
Men’s Orgasm

We have written this section in an effort to explain the male orgasm so that women can understand what exactly happens to a man during orgasm & maybe give them some insight on this subject. …

Just How Kinky Are You, or Would You Like To Be?
April 5, 2008 – 11:25 pm | No Comment
Just How Kinky Are You, or Would You Like To Be?

Plain & Simple, kinky is a relative term. As we have discussed in other sections of this site, some lovers idea of kinky is sex with the lights on, while others have taken the art …

What Exactly is Kinky Sex?
January 11, 2008 – 6:24 pm | No Comment
What Exactly is Kinky Sex?

Kinky sex is a relative term & matter for people. To some kinky sex could be leaving the lights on, while others could pursue anything from S&M to bisexuality (which in all honesty is a …

You Want To Put It Where?…Fun and cautions for Anal Sex
August 3, 2007 – 10:15 am | One Comment
You Want To Put It Where?…Fun and cautions for Anal Sex

The thought of anal sex makes many people cringe, thinking mostly about pain, or of gay males. All these negatives are closed-minded ways to think of one way to express erotic feelings for your lover. …

1950s Sex Education for Girls
June 1, 2007 – 11:05 am | No Comment

Amazing 1950’s Sex Ed video for Girls. I’m sure glad we’ve come this far! Can you imagine the reaction to this site in the 1950s!

Erotic Baths – Rub-a-dub, 2 Lovers in a Tub
April 3, 2007 – 12:43 pm | No Comment
Erotic Baths – Rub-a-dub, 2 Lovers in a Tub

One very enjoyable way to spend time with your lover is a romantic bath together. This exercise can be soothing as well as erotic for both of you. If you happen to be one of …

It’s No Fun If It’s Not Safe Sex!
February 7, 2007 – 1:44 pm | No Comment
It’s No Fun If It’s Not Safe Sex!

Although this site is written with couples in mind, safe sex is a topic that has unfortunately become an important part of life. No longer is it only a means to prevent unwanted pregnancies but …