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Environmentalists have long argued that the phthalates found in sex toys are leeching into our bodies, and compare using a vibrator containing phthalates to voluntarily ingesting other deadly chemicals. Is your best friend doing you …
Sex toys are a great way to liven up any sex life with a partner or just on your own. They provide pleasure in a number of different ways as well as variety and they …
Loss of libido in men is not something that is often talked about — by either sex. While a woman feigning a headache to avoid having sex is accepted by all as the “norm,” a …
It’s kind of amazing to me actually how swinging has become so popular these days. The amount of couples getting into the lifestyle seems to grow every day. With this sudden influx of “newbies” it …
Every relationship suffers from the grind of life. Bills, kids, bosses & everyday nonsense can bring your love life (& sex life) to a screeching halt. One way of combating this “life fatigue” is to …
Now that you’ve spent some time alone & possibly discovered some new ideas for your own masturbation sessions, it’s time to use these ideas during your time with your partner. All great foreplay should include …
So you say your relationship with your lover is pretty good. You talk about your life & job every night in front of the TV but when it comes to sex, what’s to discuss. How …
Now I know what most of you are probably thinking; “pay for phone sex when I travel?” Nope sorry, that is not what this article is about. As a matter of fact that’s exactly the …
I don’t know anyone who doesn’t like a good massage. It can be relaxing & sensual at the same time. It also shows your lover that you are willing to take the time to truly …
As couples become “comfortable” with each other & their relationship the time for romance, love & sex seems to dwindle away into the routine of everyday life. This is usually the beginning of sexual & …
Oral sex has more & more become an acceptable practice in modern life. As we all know the topic screamed into the limelight several years ago thanks to a certain “high-ranking” government official that will …
Many people have a difficult time understanding the philosophy of swinging. Like many other sexual practices it carries the stigma of loose or slutty people that only care about sex & not their relationship. Nothing …
Whether dating that someone special or having been married for 50 years, most people think the mood for romance is something that only has to do with that moment. Lovers also seem to forget that …
We have written this section in an effort to explain the male orgasm so that women can understand what exactly happens to a man during orgasm & maybe give them some insight on this subject. …
Plain & Simple, kinky is a relative term. As we have discussed in other sections of this site, some lovers idea of kinky is sex with the lights on, while others have taken the art …
Kinky sex is a relative term & matter for people. To some kinky sex could be leaving the lights on, while others could pursue anything from S&M to bisexuality (which in all honesty is a …
The thought of anal sex makes many people cringe, thinking mostly about pain, or of gay males. All these negatives are closed-minded ways to think of one way to express erotic feelings for your lover. …
Amazing 1950’s Sex Ed video for Girls. I’m sure glad we’ve come this far! Can you imagine the reaction to this site in the 1950s!
One very enjoyable way to spend time with your lover is a romantic bath together. This exercise can be soothing as well as erotic for both of you. If you happen to be one of …
Although this site is written with couples in mind, safe sex is a topic that has unfortunately become an important part of life. No longer is it only a means to prevent unwanted pregnancies but …

