I don’t know anyone who doesn’t like a good massage. It can be relaxing & sensual at the same time. It also shows your lover that you are willing to take the time to truly please them & cater to their needs. As you melt away your lovers stress & strain from everyday life you also break down the walls & boundaries that life puts up, allowing them to open up sexually as well as physically.

Remember that relaxation is one of the keys to great sex & should not be overlooked. Everyday stress can have a extremely damaging effect on most people sexually. Nothing that we can think of will remove that stress better than a good massage.

Setting the Mood to Set the Mood With Massage

No I’m not stuttering! Like all good massage therapists you must think of the other factors involved with total massage therapy. Sound, smell & feel all work together to soothe the human beast. Light some candles, scented for best results, put on some soothing music & try a scented oil with your massages. Sensual Massage can be one of two things, someone rubbing a body, or a total experience for the mind, body & soul. We prefer the later & think you will too.

Instruct your lover to lay back, empty their mind & let you take control. Soothe them by whispering to them to think only of the sounds & smells & to focus on these feelings along with the feelings of you massaging them. Start slow and easy making sure to pay special attention to the places that get an oh or and ah from your lover. Don’t focus too much on their crotch, this is to relax them and get them going before foreplay or oral sex.

Points Of Interest

Knowing your lovers body comes in real handy about now. How they react to certain parts of their body being massaged can be a great help to giving them just the right amount of relaxation & then starting the stimulation. The trick here is to take them just to the point of total relaxation, without putting them to sleep of course, & then start to concentrate on parts of them that will gradually arouse them.

Make sure you massage every part of their body. Don’t forget arms & legs, feet & hands. Too often people go straight for the back & neck when giving a massage & overlook the rest of the body. Make every part of your lover feels as if it is the only part of their body at that moment.

Don’t jump straight from massage to masturbation, ease into it. If her nipples are highly sensitive work around them gradually, massaging the rest of her breast, slowly working towards her nipple in large swirling motions. Remember to watch the pressure when concentrating on one area for a long period of time, especially if your lover has sensitive skin.

Your lovers crotch should be the last stop on this exploration. Be sure to kiss & nibble the areas you are massaging. This will raise the level of excitement gradually but steadily. As the excitement builds in both of you start your focus on your lovers erogenous zones, but slowly. Gently caress those spots that drive them wild. Once again we want to gradually build them into a frenzy. Step by step increase the speed & pressure on these spots, all the while kissing them wherever you like best. If you are into the art of the tease you can stop for a moment & go back to another less sensitive area. Following this tease & taunt method can drive your lover wild & have them begging you for more. When it’s become just to much for either of you to stand any longer let caution fly to the wind. Take them & ravish them, finishing off the massage of a lifetime!

Tasty Massage Delights

If you are looking to take your sensual massages a step further we would recommend buying a bottle or two of flavored massage oil. These come in many wonderful flavors and can lead your sensual massage straight into some amazing oral sex. When you have finished massaging your lover simply start over, this time with your tongue. Make sure not to focus on their erogenous zones right away, instead cover their whole body again with slow, soft licking and kisses. Leave the “fun parts” for last. By the time you get to them your lover will be writhing in passion and ready for love! Make sure when you buy these oils you get a few flavors that the two of you will enjoy, sensual massage works well for both partners so get some flavors each lover enjoys.

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