This page is provided to assist you in navigating our site as well as using it to it's fullest potential. Although everyone using this site is at a different level of awareness & curiosity, we feel there are some "must read" sections that are required reading before proceeding any further. At the top of this list is the communication section.

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Getting Started

Female Ejaculation

Unless you have been living in a cave for the past few years you have to have heard rumors about the ability of women to ejaculate. You may have heard it referred to as "squirting" or "gushing" but it all boils down to the ability of a woman to ejaculate during sex or from masturbation. For many years most doctors dismissed this phenomenon as urinary incontinence. Unfortunately many doctors still hold to this baseless, unprofessional opinion. This is information we have struggled with for many years and feel we must weigh in on the subject once and for all. You might have guessed by now that my wife is one of these women.

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Communication

Phone Sex - Great Sex When Your Mate Travels

Now I know what most of you are probably thinking; "pay for phone sex when I travel?" Nope sorry, that is not what this article is about. As a matter of fact that's exactly the opposite of this idea but it can add some hot nights to those trips away from home. Granted it's not for everyone but if both partners can get into this it can really relieve the tensions found in relationships where one (or both) mates travel for a living! What I am talking about is having phone sex with your mate.

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Relationship Advice

Dude, You've got One Strange Marriage!

I was recently out with a friend for the day to go to a computer show. On the way home the subject of sex came up, I'm not quite sure how but I think I made a comment about having a quiet evening, a few drinks & a romp in the bedroom with my wife. Being a very close friend he knows myself & my wife quite well & knows we enjoy a, well how shall I say this, robust sex life. He replied to my comment about the evening by saying "Dude, you've got one strange marriage!"

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Sex For Parents

Practical Sex Advice For Parents - An Introduction

Nothing in the world is as joyous and fulfilling as raising children but as any parent knows it takes commitment, sacrifice and a whole lot of time. Unfortunately that commitment and sacrifice can take a hefty chunk out of parent's sex lives. All too often couples will accept this loss of a sex life as part of the cost of raising children but more often than not the loss of intimacy will slowly but surely erode their relationship.

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Setting the Mood

Spontaneity in Your Sex Life - Surprise Your Lover!

As your relationship progress's to a new level of trust & eroticism you may want to really stir things up with some spur of the moment, never saw that coming sex. It's exactly what it sounds like, grab them & make love to them. Don't ask them first, that ruins the surprise. This must be done when things are right though & requires some knowledge of your partners mood at that moment. It also requires some knowledge of what your partners reaction to this may be.

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Oral Sex

Oral Sex (For Her)

Properly administered, oral sex can drive just about any man out of his mind. The biggest problem is doing it right! Throughout my experience I have had some of the worst oral sex imaginable & sometimes you just don't have the heart to tell them it's bad. This section should put all of you ladies on the right track so hopefully this situation will never happen to you.

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Foreplay

Foreplay - Climbing the Mountain of Pleasure

Foreplay may just very well be the most important part of a great sex life. Without foreplay many ideas & feelings would never come to the surface. For many women sex without foreplay can lead to a very unpleasant experience. Women, unlike men, usually require an extended period of stimulation through foreplay to achieve orgasm.

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Dressing for Sex

Roleplaying

Roleplay dressing for sex has a lot to do with fantasy & both of the lovers ability to perform as "someone else" for your lover. This practice allows both of you to step out of your normal sexual role for an evening & pretend. If you've forgotten how to pretend I suggest you watch your kids play or go to the park & watch the local kids pretend. Pretending is something that a lot of adults forget about. It provides a "safe" special place that no one else can screw up.

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Kinky Sex

You Want To Put It Where?...Fun and cautions for anal sex

The thought of anal sex makes many people cringe, thinking mostly about pain, or of gay males. All these negatives are closed-minded ways to think of one way to express erotic feelings for your lover. Though anal sex isn't necessarily the best way to approach sex with a new partner, or for the first time with a partner & shouldn't be attempted without some pre-planning, it can be an exciting way to explore new sensations. Whether it's her first anal sex or his there are quite a few things to consider and not something to be tried without your partner's knowledge and permission.

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Masturbation

Mutual Masturbation, Use What You've Learned

Now that you've spent some time alone & possibly discovered some new ideas for your own masturbation sessions, it's time to use these ideas during your time with your partner. All great foreplay should include some mutual masturbation in conjunction with oral sex, massage or any other idea that the two of you enjoy.

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Sex Toys

Dildos, Searching for the Perfect Plastic Penis

Dildos have been around almost as long as man has existed. Although many think that these toys were a modern day invention, actually the first documented dildos were used by the ancient Romans & Greeks. Although I'm sure their versions of the favorite toy weren't quite as sophisticated as the modern ones, the idea has always been the same. A portable penis that is on call 24 hours a day, is never tired & can perform all night long.

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Assorted Articles

Online Sexual Predators and the Danger To Your Children

Unlike the loving, caring sex we talk about on this web site there is a dark side to sex and learning about sex on the internet that has exploded over the past few years. Of course we are speaking about the ever rising problem of sexual predators that lurk in the shadows of chat rooms, myspace.com and other 'social' web sites, all for the single purpose of trying to get at your children! Am I being overly dramatic here? Absolutely not! This topic hit very close to home with us over the past week, so close that we feel it is our duty to pass this story along to every parent out there along with ways you can protect your children.

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